I used to despise this about myself. Why TF can I not relax for five minutes?! Then I read The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control, and I realized that it’s both a strength and a weakness, just like many other characteristics. Now I try to focus on keeping it in check, rather than wishing I was a wholly different person.
I've heard of that book! I'm definitely a perfectionist, and have mostly learned to manage it in my day-to-day work stuff. It is still out of control in other areas, though. I know it has served me well in the past, just need to get to that balance point.
I can certainly relate, Jaime, especially about ordering the grande Frappahooie Performance Milkshakeâ„¢ drink as a 'treat'. Typically I indulge my 'treat jones' in airports making connecting flights.
Speaking of which, did you see this article in the NYT?
Jaimie Derringer, you are my hero.
I used to despise this about myself. Why TF can I not relax for five minutes?! Then I read The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control, and I realized that it’s both a strength and a weakness, just like many other characteristics. Now I try to focus on keeping it in check, rather than wishing I was a wholly different person.
I've heard of that book! I'm definitely a perfectionist, and have mostly learned to manage it in my day-to-day work stuff. It is still out of control in other areas, though. I know it has served me well in the past, just need to get to that balance point.
I can certainly relate, Jaime, especially about ordering the grande Frappahooie Performance Milkshakeâ„¢ drink as a 'treat'. Typically I indulge my 'treat jones' in airports making connecting flights.
Speaking of which, did you see this article in the NYT?
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/09/16/dining/drinks/customized-drinks.html?unlocked_article_code=1.Lk4.ZmFN.SxiWxdaBvO2o&smid=url-share
I mean, some of these folks are putting down 2500 calories with three visits a day.
I am so glad that both of us get these little treats for ourselves! It’s a very important part of self-care 😆
I hadn’t seen that article, but looking forward to reading about these drink orders 😳!
Ah yes!! The monster lurking beneath ambition. I was blind to it until this moment. I definitely have this disease.
I'm sorry you have it too 😞